Some days I can be at any given spot and somebody will approach me and ask how I got in the chair. The days of me telling people I was attacked by an elk are over, so most often I give a condensed version of the real story.
The stranger’s response is usually an empathetic one, which I can deal with. However, sometimes people are a little too sympathetic for my liking. I don’t ever want people to feel sorry for me. Usually it is middle-aged to old-aged people who really take the story hardest. Even though they just met me, people will say things like “that is so terrible,” “I can’t imagine how hard that must be,” etc, etc… It’s usually at this point where I find myself explaining that it really isn’t that bad. My life is pretty great. I may even throw a “Life is not so much about what happens. It is more about what happens next” in there, just for good measure…
And you know… I generally believe the words I speak. Sure the odd day it sucks… Some days, it TOTALLY sucks! But for the most part life is pretty rad. Certain days remind me of just how rad life is, or just how lucky I am to be alive, or just make me stoked that I never gave up and did find a way to live an active, exciting and rewarding life.
This past weekend was one of those weekends filled with reminders of how awesome life is and can be….
The weekend began with a test at CDI. So yeah, maybe not the ultimate start, but I think I did ok. I was out of school ASAP and heading for my buddy Taeben’s place to pick him up. NOTE: Due to a number of speaking related commitments, I am also going on hiatus from school for at least a couple of weeks and as much as I love school this “summer break” is/was something to be stoked on.
Taeben and I had a big weekend ahead. We were about to embark on a punk-rock-road trip to The Vans Warped Tour at the Gorge Amphitheatre in George, Washington. Our plan was to stay in Leavenworth (this sick Bavarian Village just outside of Wenatchee I discovered in my speaking travels this past Spring) the first night then drive to the Gorge Saturday morning to watch Warped and camp there Saturday night.
Now for some reason, I seldom get excited about future events. I think it is a defence mechanism I built up some years back to help avoid disappointment. But all week, since I booked the room in Leavenworth and bought Warped tickets, I had been jacked!
Our drive down was pretty chill. Sunny skies, mellow traffic and loud punk rock playing from my stereo - just to add a little chaos to the calm. We made a few stops for eats and gas along the way. My favourite stop was at a drive-thru diner called ZEKE’S just out of Gold Pan, Washington. The only reason I give a fffffffffffff… about ZEKE’S is that there is a raunchy punk rock band called ZEKE out of Seattle. So just as if a highway burger-stop were named NOFX’s, Guttermouth’s, or MANOWAR’S, this place was a must stop for me. In a way, it was a sacrifice in the name of punk rock, as I opted to eat a greasy ZEKE burger over the predictably delicious authentic German cuisine I could have eaten had I waited to dine in Leavenworth.
Leavenworth turned out to be pretty good times for me and Mr Taeben. We met some super chill people at the first place we started the night at ____________ insert generic German pub name, and then met another bigger party of locals at our next destination insert generic German pub name here _______________. I don’t remember the names of these places.
We ventured back to a party at our new party’s home once we grew tired of our final generic German named location of the night. You may ask WTF is he talking about? I don’t even know sometimes. Regardless the night was filled with good people, good tunes, good times… It was a late night to say the least, and the following morning did not really go as planned.
Although my alarm going off at 9am woke Taeben and me up, it did not keep us up. I basically went straight back to sleep in my bed that I had won rights to in a Rock, Paper, Scissor contest the night before and Taeben ventured off around the hotel, only to be scared back to the room by all of the shining happy people around. We both needed a little more darkness. I think we slept until noonish.
We finally got on the road for Warped Tour around 1pm. I think the show started at noon. It was pretty basic survival for eats. I had already decided that I was going to do a KB style mini-version of Supersize Me by surviving off burgers the entire weekend, so I added a couple of MacD’s cheeseburgers atop of the ZEKE burger and Jr Whopper I had ate the night before. NOTE: I was so stoked to stop at ZEKE’S and listen to ZEKE while I ate a ZEKE BOARGORE WWoooowwwwHH!! Did I mention that already??
Taeben being a picky eater, pretty well only eats pizza, pasta or perogies (yet is skinny somehow on an all carb and cheese diet) so we stopped at pizza joint for him. Ironically one of our new friends from the night before worked at the pizza place so Taeben had a chance to thank the dude for their hospitality. On our way out of Leavenworth, we spotted another couple of friends we had met from the night before, so we stopped and chatted with them briefly recapping the night and exchanging goodbyes and Kevin Brooks postcards. NOTE: I was giving those things out to anyone rad I met this weekend.
We got to Warped Tour grounds around 2:30pm. It was damn HOT on Saturday. It must have been close to 40C or 110F outside. I have to admit the lack of sleep did not mesh very well with the heat. I felt like butt… I felt like hot-butt… like a butt in a microwave. YES… It felt as though my fragile insides were being molecularly rearranged and subsequently cooked. Still we set up camp among hundreds of punk rockers and made our way via short bus (is there any other way to travel?) to the venue. I think we finally got into the venue around 3pm, only to learn that we had missed the band Face To Face. FML: No big deal. Face to Face was only the main reason we made the long journey to the Gorge. Hey, you just roll with these things right because you can’t change them. I especially roll with them. Bad wheelchair jokes: Are there any other kind?
The first band we saw was The Casualties. They came up on stage immediately after some bunk band called Alasana, I think. I knew of this band after reading that some members of Pennywise had apparently beaten them up a couple weeks ago. Since reading the article I thought Alasana sucked. Is it wrong to judge bands? Bands don’t have feelings do they? As far as I was concerned this was just another make-up wearing screamo band whining about MEH! The Casualties rocked though! I recorded a song and put it on You Tube.
It was seriously uncomfortably hot for me outside. I felt like I was slowly dying in the heat. MEDICAL FACT: I don’t properly sweat ever since being paralyzed, so my options for cooling my body temperature are not as self sufficient as they were before. Basically I need one or all of the following… submersion in cold water or cold air. Without one of the two I can pretty easily get heat stroke, and even die if I were exposed long enough to extreme heat. Luckily, I found some shade where I sat and soaked myself with water for at least an hour or so until my body temperature retreated to normal levels.
Once I felt human again, Taeben and I decided to check out the rest of the venue. This entailed Taeben pushing my crip-ass up a big ass hill that is about the equivalent in steepness and knarliness to the Great Wall of China. It was at this point in the day we reversed roles. Now he was overheated and feeling like death was creeping upon him. While I was all smiles after enjoying a refreshing slushy beverage and a bit of a breeze during the free ride in my chair up to the rest of the stages. For the better part of the weekend it seemed to be this way. One of us was always feeling like ass and the other was all jacked and stoked.
The main stage had most of the other acts that had drawn Taeben and me to Warped Tour. NOTE: Every time I write Taeben a red squiggly line appears underneath his name encouraging me to spell check. I finally just did and among the suggestions was Teabag. So from now on in this blog and in life I am calling Taeben - Teabag.
Reel Big Fish and Dropkick Murphys were set to play one after the other on the main stage, and we were stoked on that. As a sweet added bonus, Alkaline Trio (who’s set we had also earlier missed) played a short acoustic set between Reel Big’s and Dropkick’s sets. After feeling haggard all day these tunes really picked up my spirits and kicked me in the butt. Notable songs were Beer and Take on Me (RBF), Radio and Sorry About That (A3), State of Massachusetts, Shipping Up For Boston and Kiss Me, I’m Shitfaced (DKM). I love live punk rock!
Once Dropkicks’ were done, Teabags and I headed for our campground, yet again in a short bus. We arrived at our campground to see we had neighbours. We got acquainted with these fellow punkers and made friends quite effortlessly. I actually think I’ll be chillin’ with Kyle, Kyle, Elliot, D-Bone and Krisha again sometime in the future because they are rad. In fact, Krisha, and I are hitting Strung Out in Whistler in a couple of weekends!
I had so much fun camping at the Gorge! I had never experienced camping like this before. Picture rows and rows of cars and trucks, and between each vehicle there are little mini makeshift camp grounds set up. Everywhere I looked I saw punkers. Every campsite I passed was blasting punk rock. I decided to take over the music responsibilities for our campground and set my truck up as our ghetto-blaster.
As the night progressed, the tunes got louder, and it was open season for anyone to hop in the front seat of my truck and DJ from my i-POD. It is here that I have one of my fondest memories of the entire trip….
REMINSICING: So there tailgating on my truck was a bunch of people I had just met within hours. Although we were technically kind of still strangers, we acted as though we had been friends for years. In between small talk with we all sung Operation Ivy, Bad Religion and NOFX songs together like nobody cared. Many passers-by stopped, joined our happy group and sung along. It was so much fun!!! Tunes consisted of punk and or ska, and then one dude made my night… He put on metal. We got talking. I mentioned MANOWAR. He shouted MAAAANOWAAARRR!!! and instantly we were bro’s. Obviously, a MANOWAR tune followed on the i-POD as an intense convo about METAL ensued. I say: This is how great friends are made!
I ended up leaving our campground at some point in the NITE to journey off and make more friends. It was a solo mission but not for long. Rolling around in a wheelchair can be a chore at the best of times, so camping on uneven ground, in an unfamiliar place in the darkness of night is definitely challenging to say the least. Fortunately there were a lot of cool people at the Gorge. I would not have to push too far until someone would approach and ask “Hey man need some help?”
Now, normally I turn down anyone who offers to push me, but on this night I was all for it. “Just lean me back and give’er’” I would say, and away we would go. Random people pushed me all over that campsite so far that I ended up not even knowing where I was. You know how when you are the driver you tend to remember the way more than when you are a passenger? Yeah that basically happened in a freakin wheelchair! So at about 2am I am lost in punk rock camping world and have no idea where my tent, truck, Teabag and new friends are. It must have been written on my face because a couple dudes from Minnesota approached and offered to push me around the site to find my home. All weekend I met people like this! Just so cool! I knew the world was full of good people before I embarked on this journey, but after the weekend I love people more than ever! I love Americans more than ever!!!
Finally we saw some security guards. They spotted me as I spotted them. The one guy asked me “hey is your name Kevin? Are you 31 and from Canada?”
“YES, YES, YES’” I responded.
Then he told me he had been instructed to punch me in the face. Apparently Teabag had talked to security. Pretty funny! No sooner do I realize that my buddies are looking for me then Teabag walks up and shouts my name. STOKED! We were reunited. Back to the campground we went, and straight into my tent / truck I went to sleep. I tend to camp in my truck as opposed to tents. Not sure why? Maybe because my truck has a heater and tunes.
All in all it was such an awesome weekend!!! Last Warped I met NOFX. This Warped I met so many awesome people! I think it’s safe to say that the Warped Tour is about music and good people. Yeah I drew that conclusion because it wasn’t obvious…
When all was said and done and my tired ass was back in Canada I looked back and was super stoked on the weekend. My favourite part – the people!
It was so rad to go somewhere where the people were all united under a common love. We were there for the music. And through that passion for music we were united. Even cooler was he lack of attitude. Our common bond was strong enough to tear down any barriers that may otherwise impede the union of all of these people from different races, places, background and cultures. Status or any superficial BS didn’t matter. We were there for the punk rock and many for the party afterwards.
I was so stoked to be able to just cruise around to randoms any and everywhere at this show just start talking and before long we were friends. I was so stoked that every campground, or vehicle or i-POD doc, or whatever had SICK tunes blasting from it. And when I got home Sunday feeling admittedly a little worse for the wear, I was so stoked to get texts and emails from cool people I had met over the weekend who were as stoked on me as I was on them. I will be going to Warped at the Gorge annually from now on. This was one of the best weekends I have had in a long, long time! And I have some pretty sick adventures, as you know if you read this blog at all or know me.
This world is full of people. We can be nice to one another, mean to one another or indifferent. I really think the world would be a better place if people just dropped the attitude, smiled and were more approachable. This goes for society as a whole, but also any institution within it: schools (elementary, secondary or post-secondary), the workplace, camping, driving, walking (or rolling down the damn street), whatever… This is the world I want to live in.
How about you?
Thanks for reading!
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Kevy Metal