Nah, Nah, Nah, Nah, Nah,Nah, Nah, Nah… FISHING, FISHING, FISHING

Posted September 14, 2010

Well Hello,

 

I have been pretty busy living up my final weeks off before I hit the road again, so sorry for no blogs.  Last week I could barely respond to an email because I was 110% engulfed in my latest and greatest passion…  FISHING!

 

Ahhh…  Life has been pretty great.  I can’t believe summer has come to such an abrupt end though… Though looking out my window today, she looks like a beauty.  I plan to hit the Fraser River for some more sockeye fishing in a couple hours, but first I want to touch base with you all and let you know what’s been going on.

 

As I said, I have been pretty stoked on fishing.  Here in BC we are having the most epic sockeye salmon run in nearly one hundred years.  Experts estimate anywhere between 25 – 30 million fishies are swimming up our rivers right now, which means good pickings for anyone with a rod… fishing rod. 

 

I, myself, just purchased my first fishing rod last weekend that I have owned since I was a little kid.  And in typical random fashion I had quite a laugh in the process of purchasing the rod.  As you may have noticed already, fishing lingo leaves many an opportunity for inappropriate puns.  Someone such as myself cannot help but recognize and exploit the crap out of this golden opportunity to make “rod” jokes.  That said, I was quite surprised and pleased that the 50 something year old lady helping me choose my gear last weekend also recognized this commonality.  Her best / worst / most awkward comment likely being when she told me that the girl helping me choose my fishing rod sure knew how to stroke a rod…  HEY OH.  That is my sister Allison lady!    Luckily my family has a demented sense of humour… we all laughed.

 

As for the fishing…  it has been good times on the river!.  They is nothing like pulling your dinner out of the water right before your eyes.  RANDOM FACT:  I often wish I could skip the supermarkets and all of the processing and whatnot that must happen to our food.  I mean… Wouldn’t it be great to grow your own fruit, veggies, spices, meat and such??  Then, and only then would you truly know that nobody has tea-bagged your eggs or stuck your carrot in their nose…  Do I think too much about this stuff???… Maybe.

 

The first day of fishing on the Fraser was a major learning experience.  You don’t just toss your rod in and pull out a fish.  It ain’t Surrey!  There is some skill and technique needed for sure.  Sitting in a wheelchair definitely poses some different challenges as well, but of course that wasn’t going to stop me.  By my second day of fishing I had figured out how to cast with both hands and throw a line a good 40 – 50ft out into the river.  I pulled a 6 or 7lb sockeye close enough to see eye to eye before the punk busted my leader, and that was as close as I came the first day.  I left the river with no fish.  But I wasn’t discouraged.  Rather, I had the itch…  And not that itch that is prevalent with fishing in Surrey.  This was a different itch that doesn’t require a trip to the walk-in clinic. I was hookedAnd I swear I did not intend to drop that cheesy fishing pun…

                                                                                         

So I went again Thursday with my buddy Randy.  He caught his 2 fish limit in about 10 minutes – before I was even all set up.  Looked easy enough!  But from then on out, we both caught nothing.  As the day progressed, we started to lose a lot of line to snags, and there was a noticeable lack of fish.  We were about to call it a day when two of our buddies (the Grant brothers) cruised up in a boat yelling “BROOKS…  BREIER!!!”   The Grant brothers are RAD dudes.  I love em!  And as an added bonus they had a BOAT!  Which meant we now had a boat!!   See each day I had been fishing, I had been looking across from the riverbanks at this rugged rocky island.  I could see that everyone on that island was slaying fish.  I wanted to be there.  I wished many times to have a boat.  Now all of a sudden that wish came true. 

 

The Grants are tough…  These dudes have hauled me up knarly stuff.  And it’s not even so much they have to help me.  I think they just flat out enjoy it.  My buddy’s loaded me and my chair in the boat and we cruised across to the island.  They then lifted my chair, 4X4ed me across what looked like the surface of the moon and eventually plunked me halfway up to my knees in the river right where the getting was good.  Within 10 minutes I was pulling in a bigass salmon.  And let me tell you this is a battle from start to finish.  I ended up losing my first island sockeye, but it wouldn’t be my last.  Randy hooked into one a bit later and had me reel it in, and this is the guy in the picture.  It was a pretty rad feeling brining in the big fish… well all besides the pain in my shoulder…

 

SIDE STORY:  I went to Whistler to see Strung Out a couple of weekends ago.  SICK SHOW by the way!  I got up crowd surfing for the first time since I cripped myself.  It was a festive night and when I went to leave I noticed that all of my buddy’s were MIA.  The elevator was broken at Garfinkle’s, so I relied on some random dudes to lift me up the stairs in my chair.  One of these dudes and I did not get along so well.  A few words were exchanged, then as I sat minding my own looking for my buddies I was hit with a Goldberg-esque tackle that threw me out of my chair.  My eyebrow connected with the ground and split open and my shoulder took a pretty good walloping too.  My eye is all but healed, but my shoulder has been giving me grief ever since.  As for the knarly Aussie who took me out of the chair.  My buddy Nick introduced Mr Fist to his face a few times and then we all laughed about it while eating burritos in a 7-11 parking lot.

 

… So yeah, my shoulder has been kind of buggered, and I really did it in with all of the fishing and 4×4ing in my chair along the river Thursday.  When I got home that night, I could barely move my arm.  It scared me a little because I rely on my arms for everything.  My arms act as my legs.  I started to think of all of the things I use my arm for and wonder what I would do if I suffered a serious injury.  I am not really one to chill on the couch and do nothing… 

 

I immediately looked up shoulder injury on the internet when I rolled in the door and learned that I should ice the injury but not put heat on it.  Hmmm… I was going to ice then heat it.  Good to know.  So I iced my shoulder, then elevated it and did all of the things the internet told me to do (a scary thought kind of – especially depending what sites you are looking at).  But sure enough after icing, elevating and with some rest and relaxation over the next couple of days my arm is feeling awesome again.  So today I am going fishing!!! 

 

I haven’t casted, reeled in and bagged my own sockeye yet, so today is the day.  And I hope to get a shot of it too!

 

But before I do go fishing, I should tell you about one more AWESOME experience I recently had.  My mom’s b’day was in August, and for her b’day I bought us tickets to see Gaslight Anthem at the legendary Commodore Ballroom.  Oh what a show it was…  Mom and I started the evening on a patio on Granville near the venue, where I spotted my buddy Spoons.  Spoons is a homeless man who lives in Vancouver and rocks out on spoons – hence the name.  He is a kind and gentle soul and I have the utmost respect for the guy.  I dropped him a $20 as I usually do, and he rocked out this little gem medley here.

 

After some eats and meeting up my buddy Mikimal, the three of us (mom, Mike and me – no Spoons) headed for the show.  None of us had ever seen the Gaslight Anthem before, and we were in for a real treat.  I was especially stoked having taken my mom to her first ever punk show.  So we nabbed a table where we could see the stage well…  Fortunately some nice dudes from the island hooked us up.   I love punk shows and was happy to see my mom really digging the first two bands, Fake Problems and The Menzingers. 

 

But they were just an appy.  When Gaslight took the stage it was epic.  They really put on a SICK show! Man, seriously, I go to a lot of shows as you likely know from reading my blogs.  This was one of the better performances I have seen in a long time.  The set was so tight; the sound was awesome; the audience was STOKED on the bad!; and the band was STOKED on the audience.  Some notable tunes include Say I Won’t (Recognize) – which they suddenly turned into The Land of the Rising Sun unexpectedly and flawlessly during a guitar solo; Even Cowgirls Get the Blues – which sent chills up my spine and had me fist pumping with no similarities to the douches from Jersey Shore; an encore cover of the Who’s Teenage Wasteland; and The Diamond Church Street Choir – which you can check out here. 

 

If you don’t know the Gaslight Anthem, you should.  If you get a chance to see them go because are unreal live.  I have been so stoked on them and can’t stop listening…  this will likely last strong until Friday when I go and see Pennywise, Authority Zero, Riverboat Gamblers and my buddy Ryan Howlett’s band Carpenter play at the Commodore.  Yes, another show!  It has been a great couple of weeks for shows!

 

So yeah… Life is good people!  On the speaking front, I have been booking up a storm, which you can see here in my calendar.  I just booked 3+ weeks on Vancouver Island through ICBC for Spring too, which I am stoked on!  It should be a busy and amazing year, and I am super looking forward to getting back on the road with my first presentations of the year in the Land of Living Skies, Saskatchewan!

 

Lastly, you may or may not have heard that a film crew from BCIT is going to make a documentary on me.  Shooting is going to begin soon, possibly even today on the river.  The doc is going to be much more a movie about my speaking.  It is going to be a behind the scenes slice-of-life look at my day-to-day activities, challenges and victories.  I am super stoked on what is going to come from this video.   It will be available for sale once it is done too.  On top of the serious stuff, I plan to add some jackass KB humourous skits as well.  It’s going to be a beauty… and expect to see a cameo by Spoons!  Stay tuned on this one…  I will post more info as it becomes available.

 

Well people, the river is calling me.  Thanks for reading.

 

~: )

 

Kevin

 

 

 

We Are The Youth Brigade!!

Posted September 2, 2010

I just got the most random but fun and awesome phone call.  My bud Danimal called me on speaker phone strumming the Streetlight Manifesto version of Linoleum (a NOFX classic for you non-punkers).  See I know the lyrics and he wanted me to sing over the phone (for some odd reason I don’t understand because my voice is pretty haggard.)  Like I can speak, but singing umm definitely not my greatest talent.  SO I just sang Linoleum over speaker phone while Danimal strummed it on guitar.  Isn’t technology RAD??  It is as long as you don’t have to hear me sing!!

 

Random story aside…

 

Tonight has been a pretty awesome night.  I met up with a friend at Starbucks in Walnut Grove (Langley).  This friend and I first met in a pretty cool way, and I must say the girl inspires the heck out of me… and when inspired I write…

 

Here is our story…

 

Last year I got an email from a student telling me that she had heard about me and my talk and story from some friends and that I totally inspired her.  The girl explained in her email how she had seen some pretty tough times of her own in her life.  She had not only lost a parent to a car crash at a young age, but also had a surviving parent currently going through some pretty intense struggles.  So the girl lived with her grandparents.  Her email explained how all of her pain was coming to a head and how she was struggling with thoughts of giving up.

 

I wrote her back telling her that she needed to hang in there and never give up.  Quite honestly, I don’t know what to say sometimes when I get cries for help from young people or anyone.  Apparently the words I said had a positive impact on this girl though.  I am so grateful for that! 

 

From then on, I heard from the girl somewhat regularly.  I responded when my hectic schedule allowed it.  I am grateful that the girl was always patient and understanding of my time, or lack there of it.  She would usually talk about life.  She also often remarked about how excited she was that I was booked to speak at her school in the coming months.  When the presentation day came around, I gave a talk I was definitely proud of, and afterwards we got to meet in person.  Our visit was short lived, as I had guests from ICBC in the audience, had a lunch planned at the school and also had an afternoon presentation I needed to get to.  During our brief chat, the girl told me that the words I had written her and the words I had just spoke at her school had changed her life.  Even cooler, she told me that my words had stopped her from taking her own life… “I had saved her life!”

 

Hearing such a remarkable comment made me feel a feeling that I don’t quite know how to put into words.  Like really people… sometimes it just blows my mind the impact I have on others.  It humbles me and I will say it again…

 

I have only met with a small handful of students in person outside of school … For starters; I pretty much have made it a rule.  No texts, no phone calls and no hanging out.  I mean I am 31.  I can’t go hanging out with high school students.  It would be kind of weird really.  I am mostly concerned with me giving out the wrong impression.  Just because I look young doesn’t mean… well you know.  I’ll make it clear:  There is no chance of hooking up with me people.  And I have learned from past experiences that sometimes me being nice is taken the wrong way.  STALKERS TAKE NOTE.  But please don’t get me wrong… Almost everyone who writes me is rad!  99% GREAT, GREAT people, no doubt!  I know most just want to be friends and I totally dig that and respect it.  And if humanly possible, I would love to get to know them all (you all), or have that sit down and hang out…  But it is totally impossible to meet and know that many people…  trust me I try to just keep up with Facebook and emails and that alone is nearly impossible. 

 

Still every once in a while I recognize that I should make a phone call, or sent a text or meet in person.  I see that the situation calls for an immediate and more personal response.  I recognize that the potential impact I could make in a person’s life goes beyond the rules I have made.  I see that this person is looking for help, for hope, for support.  And I can give one, some, or all of these things to this person. 

 

I have met some freakin awesome people by making exceptions to the rule.  People like my buddy Jordan Vigile and his family from Ottawa If you are reading this dude I still rock Gennaro’s bracelet on my arm (Gennaro is one of the Vigile brothers and sons who tragically lost his life in a car crash RIP Gennaro Vigile); or Nikki Weir:  The rad student from Summerland who got JUST WIGGLE YOUR TOES tattooed across her feet.  Nikki YOU RULE!!!   The list could go on further, and you likely know who you are if we have met, chatted, even emailed.   I am going to cut the list short though and try and keep this somewhat brief so you get a bit of sleep tonight at least. 

 

WTF am I going with this… 

 

Soooooo… Tonight was yet another RAD experience.

 

Something cool that came up in conversation is how this awesome girl wants to go into counselling to help others.  First, I couldn’t help but tell her I AM STUDYING TO BE A COUNSELOR AT CDI.  GO THERE.  IT’S RAD!  But also, I couldn’t help but make a Pay-It-Forward connection.  It got me thinking…  I share a story that people who have struggled, suffered or hurt relate to.  This is why they relate to me.  We share a common bond.  But beyond tragedy, what is my story about???  It is about finding a way and never giving up; So it inspires people to find a way and also never give up.  It is about my quest to make lemonade from the lemons; So people learn to turn their own lemons into lemonade, and even better they are inspired to offer that lemonade recipe to others as well…

                                                           

WELL LET’S JUST SAY…  I GOT INSPIRED TONIGHT PEOPLE… I GOT THINKING…

 

NOTE:  Sometimes I get so inspired that the thoughts and visions in my head feel like they might haemorrhage my brain or fracture my skull.  I think they call it an epiphany. I came to this massssssive realization… yeah even too big for my large head.  Hey check this awesome song out about having a big head THE VANDALS (so FUNNY! & HOW SICK IS JOSH FREESE ON DRUMS – RAD VIEW!!!).  Ok I am getting random here… 

 

Tonight it hit me…  A reminder of the AWESOMENESS…  I have a crew of amazing people around me who have overcome obstacles and turned their lives around from being knocked down or upside down (that rhymed.)  I guess tonight I realized that my story and message goes further than I actually ever considered or knew.  Like I would love to know how my story changed your life, but even more so where that change took you.  Is it somewhere great?  What have you done with the lessons you have learned?  And how have you used those lessons to impact others?  Maybe it inspired you to go into nursing or enforcement… maybe you are a counsellor or work with street kids.  I then remembered I have an opportunity to offer these opportunities to people.  These links I post are for you to maybe make that change to help someone or help yourself!

 

I am going to take an opportunity here to say that I was ALSO reminded again tonight that the sky is the limit.  Dream big or don’t dream at all.  Reach for the stars because you just might reach them.  And you’ll never know unless you try, and if you try at least you can say that you gave it a shot.  I mean this all started for me sitting in a wheelchair ten years ago (likely to the day) thinking: My life has been shattered to piecesWhat can I do with my life?…  What can I make of a life in a wheelchair?…  How can I bring good from this tragedy?…  Then a revelation…  But at the time I never knew…  I just thought to myself “I NEED TO SPEAK IN SCHOOLS” 

 

Never did I imagine that thought; that idea; that dream would turn into this!  NEVER EVER NEVER…   Never did I imagine I could impact people’s lives the way that I do.  Never did I think my path would lead me to high schools, secondary schools and now my own pursuit of higher education and training, so I can help and give more.

 

To those who have gotten back up from falls into despair, from depression, from heartbreak, from loss, from tragedy and from ruin… To those that want to do something positive with what they have been through or already are… I commend you.  I respect you, and I admire you.  I appreciate you all so very much, and I am sorry if I don’t always have that opportunity to let you know (This SONG comes to mind and is for you.  It is performed by the YOUTH BRIGADE.  WE ARE THE YOUTH BRIGADE!!!) Let Them Know

 

People… If there was a Starbucks big enough I would invite every single person who has ever written me; who has approached me; who has travelled to see me; who has booked me; who has made an effort to bring me to their school or venue; who has left their school smiling because of something I said; who has shared my story with others;  who has had their lives changed by my story; or who has been inspired to change others lives because of it.  And over a latte, or whatever I would just tell you flat out “YOU ALL F’N RULE!”  YEAH… I SAID IT! AND I MEAN IT!!! 

 

 

SO… This one is for you…  

 

To Chelsea and every other amazing person whose paths have crossed or intersected with mine… You are the driving force behind these words.  You are the driving force behind my voice (except when I sing because remember I pretty much suck at that and you likely would not want your name attached to my singing).  You are the reason I went back to school to learn to be a better helper.  You are the kick in my ass that I need when I have been on the road for a month and am under slept, exhausted and sometimes dishevelled and ill.  You are the reminder when I lose sight of my path.  You are the reason I am where I am today.

 

THANKS!  (Although thanks just doesn’t cut it)

 

P F’N S:  I AM OBVIOUSLY STOKED!  And I need to say that this year coming up is shaping up to be the most epic of all.  The projects I am working on are numerous and amazing all in their own right.  I will be travelling farther and more often than ever.  I will be speaking to more people than I ever have in any years before.  I have the greatest support and widest variety of venues and avenues than I have had to date.  I feel like with all of you behind me I am unstoppable… nah let me correct myself… 

WE ARE UNSTOPPABLE!

 

PPS: As a special treat (for those who haven’t seen this) I just unlocked a video of me actually singing / butchering a classic Bon Jovi tune with my buddy METAL DAVE from ICBC on guitar…  All that talk about me singing convinced me to release this train wreck…  Just for you…  DEAD OR ALIVE