What The Halloween??

Posted October 31, 2010

I woke up this morning and just felt kind of off.   You know the mornings where your eyes open and your body starts but your brain seems to stay asleep?  How fitting that I would start this Halloween morning feeling like a zombie.

It isn’t really surprising to me that I felt off today.  I’m more surprised it took me this long after all of the travelling I have been doing over the past month.   I have slept at home maybe eight nights in the past month.  And today as I awoke in Vancouver, Washington at my friends’  and agents Jason and Cara’s place I was about to embark on yet another journey.

As I rolled through customs at the Portland, Oregon airport I mentioned to the guy searching me (thankfully not the same guy from last time who felt me up like I was his prom date) how my mom worked doing 9-11 Dispatch and has repeatedly told me that all of the crazies come out on days like Halloween and full moons.  Yes this is the same mom who I am so proud of for creating such a masterpiece of a Halloween display.  She one upped mine for sure!

Well hours later as this Halloween day turned into the day from Hell-o-ween I felt like I was eating those words about crazies.

Feeling like a zombie today actually made the day go by pretty fast.  My 8hrs of flights from Portland, OR to Albuquerque, NM to El Paso, TX seemed to just fly by.  Lame pun not intended…  I landed in El Paso around 5pm and headed for the car rental kiosk after grabbing my baggage.

As I approached my car in the parking lot I was happy my ride.  I got myself, my luggage and my wheelchair all inside.  Then I plugged in my GPS, I-Pod and phone into the charger…  pretty standard stuff.  I started the car and was about to pull away when I realized that I did not have a hand-control in the car.  For those of you unfamiliar MY LEGS DON’T WORK!  So yeah, I kind of need a hand-control to drive…  Just kinda!

I am a resilient stubborn dude and have learned to problem solve quite well, especially since being in the chair.  This wasn’t the first time I had been in such a predicament.  My first bet was to ask the rental company if they put me in the wrong car.  Easiest solution likely the best one – right?  Unfortunately this wasn’t the case.  And unfortunately on a Sunday evening there was no way them or any other company could get hand-controls installed for me.  No it couldn’t be that easy could it?  Now if I were just staying and speaking in El Paso, no big deal right?  But no…  I had a two and half hour commute through the dessert and mountains to Ruidoso, New Mexico.  Why don’t I own a power wheelchair??!!  Like a really fast one.

Now as I said a second ago, this was not my first time I have been in this situation where hand-controls were compromised.  In fact, I have had a few hand-controls crap out on me in the past, leaving me no choice but to rig up my own devices.  My handles to my wheelchair actually work pretty darn well, but I had only used them for acceleration in the past while still having brakes working with my hand-control.  Being in Texas and stranded and zombie brained I figured I’d give the car a whirl around the parking lot to see how it felt driving with handles.  It didn’t take long until I realized there was no way I could drive to New Mexico safely using a wheelchair handle.  I mean I am a road safety speaker after all, so probably not the best plan.  As stubborn and independent as I am, I know when I am beat.

So now what??

After much deliberation and pleading with managers and agents and some power dialling to other car companies etc, (and a few FMLs) it came down to me taking a taxi.  The plan was take a taxi half of the way to Ruidoso to a town called Alamogordo.  In Alamogordo I would get picked up by the teacher who had brought me out here and driven the rest of the way to my destination for the night.  Seems simple enough right?

As I sat in front of the airport waiting for my cab chatting with a cool young dude from the car company named Fernando an old lady sauntered up.  She was wrinkled and weathered and missing some teeth.  For reasons unknown to me she came directly into my personal space and began speaking to me.   I could barely understand the broken English that came from the lady’s mouth. And she was definitely a sight.   If she was wearing black instead of pink she could’ve very well passed for a witch on this unholy of days.  But nope she wasn’t a witch.  I realized this was my cab driver.  Just to make matters better / worse at about this time a decent amount of drool dripped and poured out from the mouth and onto the shirt of my driver.  WTF!?  I looked over at my buddy Fernando from the dealership thinking did he just see what I had just seen.  Sure enough he had, and he was trying hard not to laugh.  I didn’t make it easy when I asked the lady “how are you drooling today?”  Sorry, but I couldn’t help it.

So I get into the cab and things just don’t seem right.  The lady is taking to me but I don’t understand what she is saying.   It is mostly inaudible then every once in a while I would understand the words money, pay or cash.  I explained to the lady that I had no cash – only Visa, but she didn’t seem to be following.  She said she had to make a stop, and truthfully as we drove under some random bridge as the sun faded behind the mountains and darkness fell on El Paso, Texas on All Hallow’s Eve I started to get a little sketched out.  I mean it’s not like I could jump out of the cab and run you know.  I kept wondering why this lady was so worried about how much money I had.  Was I about to get jacked by an old lady?  Was I going to be a story on 48Hours Mystery?  Seriously after everything was I really going out like this?

Droolie’s driving was about as good as her English.  I avoided the awkwardness by sending barrage of  text messages and BBMs explaining my predicament to friends and even posting a little blurb on Facebook making light of the situation, even though I was super sketched out.  Eventually the money issue at least got sorted after calling the dispatch and the Visa being Ok’d.  Things were at least a little less random and awkward now.  The barrage of texts and BBMs continued…  It was fully dark by now, and this lady really was a complete character…  borderline freakshow.  You know…  I thought I was making safe choice by calling a cab until the cab I was in narrowly missed rear-ending the same vehicle twice.  DUDE!  What was up with this night?  Minutes later Droolie answered her cell phone while driving (also illegal in Texas) and the car swerved towards the darkness of the highways endless shoulder.  This was not how I wanted to go out I told myself again.

As we drove in the dessert darkness, I stared out the window at the stars in the sky above.  I started to ponder the existence of vampires.  It was Halloween.  This was a perfect setting for a B-Movie Vampire Flick.  Maybe that’s why my driver was drooling…  She hadn’t feasted on a human in centuries…  This night was so demented.  Maybe I was about to be sucked dry of my blood by the living undead.  Maybe I’ve watched too many horror movies…  I have been listening to a lot of Misfits lately.

 

Fortunately I did survive the ride to my check point without crashing, being rolled for my Visa and sneakers and wheelchair or eaten by vampires.   Never has the sight of a stranger been as sweet as when I saw Linda from Ruidoso High School.  I mean just imagine you are in some distant place on Halloween, your driver is crazy, barely audible, missing teeth, drooling and veering all over the road…  and to top it off you can’t move most of your body…  and did I mention it’s Halloween…  or how about the fact that you are also in very close proximity to Roswell…  As in Roswell New Mexico Alien Mecca of the universe…  ON HALLOWEEN!

With the transfer complete, I felt a sense calm come over me.  Linda was super cool. and the second leg of my drive was much more relaxing and “normal” than the first part.  When we arrived at my hotel she helped me with my bags and into my room.  Linda is a great host.  I told her I had a gift for her for helping me.   I began to open my bag to grab a Just Wiggle Your Toes t-shirt for her, but it being a new bag, I struggled a bit.  Being the helpful, kind person she is, Linda helped me open my bag.  It had been a long day.  I appreciated her help.   But to my shock and dismay, as soon as the top of the bag folded open I saw something that looked like… no it couldn’t be… was that a nudie magazine??  I grabbed whatever it was and tried to keep it from Linda’s peripheral.  I’m pretty sure she spotted the item regardless of my attempts to hide it.  So there I sat totally busted.  But to make matters worse, it wasn’t just a nudie mag.  It was a perverse care package of lubes, beads etc… that my jackass agent Jason had obviously slipped into my bag as a hoax. OMG!  I didn’t even know what to do.  I couldn’t hide the prank.  I’m pretty sure she seen it.  I’m pretty sure she may be second guessing her guest speaker she just brought from Vancouver, BC upon high recommendation.  Classy guy for sure!

Well that was the kind of Halloween I had.  Before anything else demented or random happens I am going to bed.  I’m hoping for a good sleep after this day I just had.  My room is actually pretty sweet.  I can’t help but think that my room and sleep will be sweeter if I am not awakened and intruded upon by probing aliens on this morbid dark night.  REMEMBER:  Roswell.  And… Well…  I mean it’s not like they’d have to even bring their own probes after my little prank-care-package I have here.  

I write this blog in tongue and cheek style because really what else can you do after a day like this?  I could worry about it, but what good would that do? I’d rather laugh about it.  It’s over.  You know, through this entire crazy day I have kept my smile.  And I hope these stories made you smile too.  If there is a point in all of this I’d say it’s just that some days are more challenging than others.  But you know what, I actually welcome days like these because I know the balance of the universe will bounce me back with a great day or two or three…  This awareness gets me through the days like these.  Better days are always around the corner.  Hopefully my better days begin tomorrow…  That is if they let me in the school.  I SWEAR THAT STUFF WAS NOT MINE!

Jason Filler you better sleep with one eye open man! GFYS

  And to everyone else, Happy Halloween!

PS.  I should add that the last part of this blog was a bit of a hoax.  The “care package” did exist, but Linda didn’t leave awkwardly and I didn’t even have a chance to hide the “care package” from her.  Instead we pulled a prank on Jason.  She emailed him and asked “what kind of guy did you send to my school?”  We let him stew for a bit, and upon Linda’s request I confessed to Jason the next day.  If it were up to me, I would’ve still had him stressing about it… But it’s all good because I still owe him one for that “I love Glee and Ricky Martin” status he posted on my Facebook.  Note to self and others…  Always close your Facebook account, especially when you are using someone elses computer.

\m/\m/

KevyMetal

Give Thanks…

Posted October 11, 2010

So it’s Canadian Thanksgiving Eh!

 

Well as I opened my eyes, after a great sleep in my own bed I sure had plenty of things to be thankful and grateful for.  For starters, I am just happy to be alive.  And I never feel as alive as I do when I am busy travelling and sharing my story… and I’ll tell you I have been BUSY the past two weeks!  I have given 18 presentations since Monday, September 27th

 

… but not only I have spoken 18 times in the last two weeks.  I have also driven thousands of kilometres (1000+ miles my American friends) across the Canadian prairies; flown on 6 airplanes; began shooting a documentary; filmed, edited and produced my own mini-documentary; wrote a huge epic blog and maybe another one here; responded to countless emails; done media interviews; spoke in various venues to various audiences - challenging my speaking range to the max; visited Alaska for the first time ever… really the list goes on and on.  BUT this is not me complaining… quite the contrary.  I love it!  I am so thankful for the past two weeks I have experienced.

 

Now I as I write this while eating my standard breakfast I eat each morning at home (a hard boiled egg and a Gala apple) I can’t say that I am thankful for the seemingly rotten egg I just one-bite-munched.  Eggs are not supposed to taste the way the ocean smells are they?  I knew that thing had been sitting in my fridge a while, but I didn’t think that long… oh well.  I will be thankful if I don’t get violently ill today.

 

Last I wrote / blogged I was in Saskatchewan.  My last blog collectively took me around 10hours to write.  And probably close to that long to read!  Though many have told me you read it!!  So cool!!!  After writing that blog I hit the town in Saskatoon and had a blast.  Being an out-of-towner I didn’t exactly have a ton of friends I could call to hang out with…  (I knew a couple, but they were both busy) so I set off on my own.  I went to Moxie’s for dinner and visited my friend Sydney who was working there.  From Moxie’s I did a first ever for KB.  I went to a movie by myself.  But it wasn’t just any movie…  I went to FUBAR 2 (American friends… only some Canadians are like this and the rest of us quite like to laugh at them)!  I didn’t feel alone though in the movie theatre…  It was jam packed with rocker skids, yelling out quotes from the original FUBAR movie well into the movie’s credits.  I had blast on this night and actually met a ton of people and ended up back at one of my many new friends’ place for a large gathering.  I love solo random adventures!

 

A week ago today I finished my Saskatchewan tour by speaking in Gravelbourgh, a small European-inspired town in south central Saskatchewan…  South central sounds so gangster…  But Gravelbourgh is definitely not gangster.  The students were great; the school was awesome; and I ended my first speaking tour of 2010 / 2011 on a super high note.  I visited with my friend Tim from SADD Saskatchewan before I left town which was great.  I also got to see my good friend Robyn in Regina the night before.  It stokes me that through my travels and speaking I have made friends all over the world now.  I can go almost anywhere it seems and have at least one friend to call and hang out with.  I made many new ones on my last Saskatchewan trip including a sweetheart named Leanne from Saskatoon!  Shout Out!!

 

I didn’t get much rest once I was home from my tour.  I spent Tuesday doing laundry, shopping, cleaning, and running other errands I had been unable to do being away from home.  I considered relaxing Tuesday night with a super-duper couch chill but instead I ended up taking on this huge project and staying up until 2am.  I am super stoked with the end result though.  You can watch it here.

 

Wednesday was a BIG day!  We started shooting the Just Wiggle Your Toes documentary at Terry Fox Secondary School in Port Coquitlam, BC.  I had personally chosen Fox as the location of our shoot for a number of reasons.  For starters, I speak there every year and know the school staff and students quite well.  I feel very at home at Fox.  Secondly, the students at Fox have always been great to me.  Each time I return, the audiences are pumped.  A few students always get out of class so they can watch me speak again - which is pretty flattering too.  The enthusiasm of the students at Fox stokes me.  Terry Fox School also has an AWESOME theatre!  I am so grateful that the school and theatre staff were so cooperative and supportive of the shoot.  Thank You to the school and Thank You to the students at Terry Fox!!!  And last but not least, Terry Fox is a Canadian hero.  It is always an honour to speak at a school named after such an icon and inspiration to so many.  Terry’s bravery, strength and drive to bring awareness and make the world a better place through his own adversity is nothing short of remarkable – and remarkably his legacy continues still 30 years after his epic journey began.  If you don’t know about Terry Fox check him out here. 

 

As for the shoot, it went absolutely awesome.  I have a really great team from BCIT making this documentary.  I watched them as they prepared and set up on Wednesday at Fox and couldn’t help but recognize the attention to detail and professionalism these students possess.  I knew I was in good hands, and am really excited to see how the video turns out.  The youth are the future!  You have all of the skill, talent and drive in the world.  It’s why I have you make me documentaries, design logos etc…  In fact, the girl who first contacted me about the documentary idea, Allison, had seen me speak at her school years ago.  I meet current and former students all of the time…  I run into them on the streets, in the mall, even last night in Bellingham Airport in Washington I ran into two awesome students from Princeton, BC who had seen me speak at their school last year.  That stoked me!  I can’t help but think it will be one of you former students who have heard my sorry that goes on to be the doctor, researcher or scientist that discovers the cure to spinal cord injuries and gets me walking again.  Wouldn’t that be something?!  What a full circle story it would be if someone who heard about and was inspired by Hayley’s wish one day made it come true!

 

Our documentary shoot went from Terry Fox in Port Coquitlam to downtown Vancouver.  We had some shots we wanted to get down there.  NOTE: I really want to shoot some footage with my man Spoons.  I don’t want to give any details away though, so you can watch this vid and use your imagination.  I’ve got the utmost respect for Spoons and really think he would be a great addition to my documentary.  Our film shoot got side tracked though because I decided that I wanted to get a tattoo.  My plan was to get J W Y T tattooed across my knuckles.  JWYT stands for Just Wiggle Your Toes, and I imagine everyone reading this knows the significance of that statement.  I am so stoked on the tattoos people have been getting (seen here and here) I want to get my own.  Unfortunately we had some issues with shops being closed or else not having appointments available with artists who were willing to be shot on camera.  It will happen though… mark my words.

 

I parted ways with the film crew on Granville Street after a quick bite and headed on my way to UBC (The University of British Columbia).  I had a presentation there that night that I was looking forward to with just a little trepidation.  Again in the way that life comes around full circle…  I was contacted months ago by an enthusiastic young man named Faizil.  Faizil had seen me speak at his high school years ago.  He told me how my talk had changed his life.  I could hear by the sincerity in Faizil’s voice that he meant it.  Now years later Faizil wanted the same experience to happen for his friends and peers in the local Ismali community.  I will be totally honest…  When Faizil wrote me and asked me to speak specifically to the Ismali community, (first) I had to Google / Wiki Ismali to learn more about my audience; and (second) I was a little apprehensive after reading about the culture, only because many of the topics I speak of in my talk are taboo.  At least according to what I read.  However, I am always up for a challenge, and over the years I have learned that some of life’s most amazing experiences can come when you least expect them.

 

My presentation Wednesday night was ________________…  like seriously insert the best word you can think of…  AWESOME, AMAZING, UNREAL!!!  I am speechless when I think about it.  The audience was so receptive of my entire talk and message.  They laughed at my jokes and were all ears and hearts when I spoke of the pain and hardships and tragedies in my story.  I think it is also safe to say that many in the audience were inspired to never give up and encouraged to dig deep and fight, not only for those things they love most, but also fight to overcome the challenges that they have faced, will face and are facing in life.  I hung out for hours after my formal presentation was done getting to know so many amazing people.  I am so grateful that I was able to meet each of them (or you if you are reading this).  I made many friends Wednesday night and I know our story touched many lives the way that Faizil had intended it to.  Thank you everyone who was in attendance Wednesday night.  I know I was a stretch from your typical speaker, so I truly appreciate you taking a chance on me and just being so awesome.  You touched my heart for sure, and I hope I did the same for you all.  Special HUGE thanks to my man Faizil.  Dude, you are the man!  We will be working together soon!!! And to my bro Fahad… Keep in touch my friend.  I got your back bro!

 

I left UBC feeling jacked!  It was one of those drives home that went too quickly.  The tunes sounded better than ever, a smile was plastered across my face.  I felt so proud for all that I have been able to accomplish and where this life and journey has taken me.  There is just so much positive and awesome stuff going on in my life right now.  I am so grateful for it all!

 

Thursday was another busy day filled with meetings, emails and bookings, errands, a haircut, and a little going away deal for my friend Jen (check the cake I got here).  Will I ever grown up?  Nope!  I also had to pack for my trip to Alaska the following day.  I’ll admit, as darkness fell on Thursday night I started to feel pretty overwhelmed.  I hadn’t had a moment of rest in weeks.  All I really wanted to do was just chill on my couch for a bit and watch a couple Jersey Shore episodes… NOTE:  Please don’t judge me.  I somehow got into that train wreck of a show.  You probably watch it to… don’t you?  I did find a couple of hours before bed to just chill and pollute my eyes and numb my skull watching drama unfold in lives of the epitomes of D-bags and Skazanks…  Jersey Shore…  What has television and this world come to?

 

I slept maybe 5hrs Thursday night… which had become the norm over the past couple of weeks.  I woke up ready to rock at BCIT for ICBC’s new pilot project Trade Off.  Trade Off is the brainchild of my great friend Caroline Robinson who works for ICBC (and is an avid Mad Caddies fan compliments of yours truly!!).  Caroline came up with a brilliant idea how to get a much needed message to a well deserving audience.   College and university aged people are way overly represented in car crashes in British Columbia.  But they are a very difficult group to reach with direct messaging.  You can’t just send the entire student body of a college to a general assembly like you can in a high school.  You also don’t want to waste anyone’s time when they are paying for that time.  Well, Caroline figured out a way to get me and many of my ICBC friends and colleagues into college and university campuses across BC.  And so far so good!  Trade Off has been quite well received, as far as I can tell.  Personally, I couldn’t be more stoked!  These are my peers, and I hope to deliver my message to more and more colleges and universities as the scope of my speaking career expands.  As an added bonus, there are certain things that can be said to an adult audience that wouldn’t fly in most high schools.  My talks are as raw and uncut as can be.  I like that!  I also could respond to or take up any offers from female students I speak to since they are in fact of age…  I have had none such offers yet… maybe because of comments like this… maybe because most presentations to trade programs are sausage-fests.  Your guess is as good as mine.  Caroline if you are reading this, please book me into a nursing program.  I just want to meet a nice girl and settle down and go to punk rock shows and watch Jersey Shore and go for romantic long rolls on the beach at sunset…  Actually I am having a pretty darn good time being single!!

 

Where was I???

 

Ummm… Trade Off… at BCIT… on Friday. 

 

I was feeling pretty awesome from the get-go Friday morning.  In preparation of my big day ahead, I grabbed a coffee from the Starbucks close to home.  I sipped and rocked out to a pretty sick random playlist my i-Pod was sending my way for my drive.  Traffic was particularly mellow for a Friday morning heading west on Highway 1, and that was a nice change!  All was good, and then Rocket Queen by Guns N’ Roses came on as I approached the Port Mann Bridge.  I rocked out to Rocket Queen (one of my favourite – if not my favourite G’n’R songs) singing like I just didn’t care who saw me… and I didn’t.  As I approached the other side of the bridge something happened that hadn’t in a while…  I got super sad and bummed.  I thought about my passenger Brendon who died in my car crash ten years ago.  I felt guilty for being so happy and loving the day so much.  I wished he could be beside me rocking out to Rocket Queen or wherever he would be in life had he not died so tragically.  I’ll tell you these moments will always be a part of my life… a constant reminder of a good night turned terrible.  I let some tears fall from my face because I have learned over the years that it’s ok to cry.  I looked up at the sky and told Bren’ “I hope you are ok man.  I hope you forgive me.  Check what I am doing man.  It’s making a difference.”

 

I had composed myself by the time I got to BCIT.  I saw a number of familiar faces I was happy to see.  I have made so many great friends through ICBC, and some of my favourites were at BCIT to check out this whole Trade Off thing.  There were a lot of VIP people in the room Friday, not just from ICBC, but also from other partner organizations and also top people from the school itself we were speaking at.  Over the years, I have learned how to turn nervousness into adrenaline.  I was pumped for this talk.  The pressure was on, and I was going to deliver.  As an added bonus my film crew were also present.  It was great to see all of them there ready to shoot more footage for the documentary.  Well it was good to see all of them but Bryan.  He kind of sucks!   Totally kidding…  We have this burn war going on Bryan and me… Make that 2000 points for Kevin now and maybe 10 for Bryan.  I guess he does kind of suck doesn’t he!  The presentation at BCIT went super well!  I was totally happy with it and got some awesome response from students in the audience.  I am quite stoked to see where this all goes.  I have more university talks coming up in the next couple weeks.  You can see when and where here.

 

From BCIT, I headed home to grab my suitcase, and from home I headed to the Washington State border.  I took 0 Avenue to a quieter border crossing than the Truck Crossing and Peace Arch crossings nearest to where I live.  This extra drive paid off because instead of waiting an hour (as the radio reports were saying), I was in the United States in less than five minutes.  I had Thai Food in Bellingham then made my way to the tiny airport.  My flight left Bellingham at 6:10pm, landed in Seattle maybe 20minutes later where I switched planes and continued my journey to Alaska.  The flight to Alaska was maybe 3+hours.  I can’t say for sure, as I slept most of the way.

 

The plane landed in Alaska in the evening.  It was dark outside, so as far as I could tell I could be in any-town / any-airport USA… or Canada really.  I mean there really isn’t that much of a difference between us and y’all… eh!  One cool thing I noticed at the airport was a display of indigenous animals like brown or grizzly bear, wolves, owls and an albino beaver.  They were stuffed but very life-like.  I shot a little video of the critters and the airport you can see here.  My cab ride to the Embassy Inn and Suites in Anchorage was entertaining to say the least.  My cab driver was an awesome tour guide.  His Jordanian accent was really cool, and he had me laughing most of the ride.  When I pulled out my camera I think he though he was auditioning for a role in a Hollywood film, or maybe Jersey Shore… Check it out here.

 

Now imagine… you fly to some distant place and arrive by yourself.  It is dark outside and, really, you have no clue where you are.  You arrive at a hotel that is packed with people who have brought you up to “their conference” to make a difference, share a story and inspire youth.  You enter the hotel and look around.  You have no idea who you are looking for.  You just know they probably know what you look like… especially if you are me… a blonde guy with a Mohawk in a wheelchair decked out in punk rock stickers!  This is pretty standard stuff for me.  It is all part of the adventure.  I love it, but at times it is pretty random too.

 

Cammi introduced herself and got me checked into the hotel.  We didn’t chat a whole lot that first night, as I could tell she was busy and I just wanted to get some sleep.  I had a big day tomorrow.  My first impression of Cammi was that she was super sweet.  In fact everyone I met in those brief few moments upon arriving in Alaska had been super friendly and almost overly kind…  but not in a bad way at all.  These people were genuinely good, caring people.  I could tell.  Just as I can spot a faker… NOTE:  Pet-Peave #2: totally fake hotel people or any people who kiss your butt and act all nice even though it is obviously so contrived. I’d rather be shunned.  Fake people drive me nuts.  PS:  No need to scroll up to read Pet-Peave #1.  I never listed it.  But for those wondering it is people who are somewhere awesome like the beach or on a leisurely bike-ride on a sunny day and across their face is a frown or scowl.  WTF?!  Smile – You’ll live longer.  Life is pretty good if you take a second to appreciate it.  NOTE: By the time you finish reading this, it might be Thanksgiving in the USA!!!   Anyways… In my experience with conferences I have found that the majority of people in attendance are fine human beings.  Conferences generally consist of people who dedicate much of their time and lives (much of it unpaid and volunteer I should add) to helping others and making the world a better place.  I had good vibes about Alaska.  This Lead On! Conference was going to be awesome, I thought to myself.  So far so good… The people were sweet.  The location was SWEET!  The hotel lobby was among the cleanest nicest I had ever been in, and I have been in a lot of hotels.  My room was baller and my bed was heavenly…  Good vibes all around.

 

I slept well that first night in Alaska and woke up around 6am.  I double checked my schedule and saw that I was in fact starting an hour later than I had thought.  I reset my alarm for an hour ahead, but barely slept.  My mind was running wild thinking about the day ahead.  Even when I did nod off my dreams were about speaking, so it wasn’t like I was really sleeping.  When Social Distortion crooned from my Blackberry at 7am, I was up and ready to take on the day.  I spent a couple of hours that morning going over my presentation.  I was booked to speak four times over the next two days and was expected to give two separate presentations.  One presentation was on “Relationships and Overcoming Obstacles” and the other was on “The Impact of Choices” or something like that. This was going to be a challenge for me because I am used to delivering one presentation.  Albeit my presentation covers all of these topics, but the dilemma and challenge that lay therein was how to separate certain topics from others because really they are all intertwined.  I worked on my morning talk, including notes previously taken on relationships.  I added a few jokes and a Jersey Shore reference (I promise last time I mention that damn show) and felt confident with my morning talk I was about to deliver. 

My first presentation was to a relatively large group considering the numbers at the conference.  I had maybe 30 people in a small partitioned room.  It was casual feel that I quite like.  Time just seemed to fly by and before I knew it I was done my morning talk… and I hadn’t even shown my video or mentioned my strongest points.  I had explained to everyone in my morning presentation that my afternoon presentation would be part two.  I asked that they come and check out the rest of My Story and was really glad when most, except maybe a handful returned that afternoon.  After a delicious burrito lunch (one of my favourite meals and likely my dinner tonight – turkey burritos to keep with the Thanksgiving theme) I started presentation number two.  I felt way more on my game and in the zone during this presentation, and it also felt like the audience (most of whom had seen me speak already) felt comfortable and relaxed.  The second half of my presentation definitely had heavier subjects than the first, and I could see the people in the room going through the emotional rollercoaster with me as I shared my story.  When it was over, I showed my final video.  I felt great about the talk I had just delivered and how I had faced adversity on this day and came out triumphant.  I was stoked!

I spent the remainder of the day mingling and speaking with youth participants and chaperones, advisors and planners.  Everybody I spoke to had good things to say about my talk.  One young man named Jack Diamond shared his own personal story of overcoming depression that was particularily moving.  At 18 years old Jack has been through a lot.  he speaks from the heart and moves audiences with his sincerity,  honesty and bravery.  Expect to see Jack travelling around speaking and changing lives in the very near future. I met so many great people that I can’t even begin to list them all.  Let’s just say that every single person I met this weekend was awesome.  Yes that means you!  All of you!  I am so grateful I could come to Alaska and meet you all.  Dinner was delicious, and I sat with a table of young friends and a couple advisors and my friend Desire, from Untied Way, I had just made.  After dinner most of the girls from the table went shopping, while I helped myself to seconds and watched some of the open mic night that was happening.  My energy levels were low, and my heavenly bed was calling my name, so around 9:30pm I snuck off to my room and called ‘er a night.  I was sleeping soon after 10pm.  I had a great sleep!

I had a different strategy for Sunday’s presentations.  Since I had been booked in the same room for both talks and they were back-to-back I decided I would do one long presentation with an intermission in between.  I ran it by Cammi, and thankfully she was cool with my plan.  As the room filled with people, I explained my idea.  Everyone seemed cool with it.  I was feeling pretty on my game Sunday.  I planned to deliver and so I put my heart, my soul and everything I had into my talk.  Don’t get me wrong… I always do.  But yesterday I was in the zone and those two hours were nothing short of epic…  I must say.  Just speaking yesterday I could feel the energy and the intensity in the room.  By the end of the 2+ hours I felt like myself and everyone in the room had been on an incredible journey together… and rightfully so.  I hope that all of my presentations have this feel.  To have everyone bond together over a tragic story, but also an empowering one is a feeling that I have come to love more than any other feeling I can think of.  This feeling inspires and motivates me and keeps me going strong still after all these years of speaking.  It is you that inspires me.  I was SO STOKED with how my final two presentations, combined into one, went yesterday.  In fact, I was and still am SO STOKED on all of my presentations I gave in Alaska.  I so hope everyone who was in attendance feel the same.  I so hope to come back to your great state sometime soon!

I had a couple of hours to say hellos and goodbyes before my flight.  I took advantage of every second I had left in Alaska because I knew that this was an opportunity I couldn’t and shouldn’t take for granted… not for a second.  I did my best to chat with everyone who wanted to chat with me and everyone I wanted to chat with.  I gave hugs, shared stories, answered questions, took pictures, exchanged contact information, ate lunch and mingled and even talked a whole lot of metal with another cool friend I met at the conference.  Check this sweet pic of me and Gina.  I really didn’t want to leave Anchorage, Alaska or the Lead On! Conference, but the time was fast approaching.  I watched a wheelchair taxi van drive past me and out of the parking lot as I said goodbyes to everyone that I could.  I wondered if I would miss my plane… there were worse places I could be stranded.  That was for sure.  The great people at the front desk called me another cab and away I left for the airport.

As my cab was about to pull away with me in it this time, a young girl from the conference approached the back of the cab where I was sitting in my wheelchair.  She reached out her hand and passed me a ring.  She said give this to your sister…  Hayley I assumed.  Hayley the little angel in my life, who I speak of so highly.  She is the same age now as many of the kids I speak to.  They likely relate to her more than me.  I knew at that moment that I had truly made a difference in at least one young person’s life this weekend.  I held the ring tightly the entire way to the airport, completely moved by this generous offer and more so the heartfelt meaning behind it. 

As the taxi approached the airport, I placed the ring in my pocket.  In my pocket I felt a piece of paper…  Unsuspectingly, I pulled it out wondering what it was… as soon as I looked at the folded up piece of paper in my pocket I remembered…  It had come from a person who had attended on of my talks…  She approached me drenched in emotion and handed me a small piece of paper.  I had yet to read it, so I read the words…

Kevin –

A quick word of thanks.  I’m too emotional to say out loud.

Henry Rollins saved my life.  Thank you for doing the same for everyone you can touch.

The 15 year old I brought said quietly “my mom needs to here this guy”- You can guess the story – But anyway – she left to make a call that can change a life.

Enough Said

Thank You

Thank you to everyone from Lead On! and Alaska!  I am proud to know I made a difference.  I am thankful I got to meet you all and be a part of your conference!

A personal note from me…

To anyone, anywhere who dedicates their time to making this world a better place…

… It is nothing short of amazing that you spend your free time fundraising, organizing, and campaigning to bring awareness, create change and make the world a better place.  We can all make a difference in our own way.  Keep fighting for what you believe in.  Never let anyone or anything stop you from reaching for the stars and achieving your dreams and improving the lives of others and this world in which we live in…

“We are born with a chance.  Rise Above.  We’re gonna rise above…” ~ Henry Rollins

~: )

Kevin

Saskatchewan I Love YA!!!

Posted October 2, 2010

So it is Wednesday night, September 29th as I write this.  I am in my hotel room in Melfort, Saskatchewan after a successful third day of my Saskatchewan fall tour.

The trip started off on not the best note…  I was so tired when I woke up Sunday at 6:30am.  It was pouring rain all the way to the airport, and I was generally feeling under the weather.  My mom drove me to the airport, and as we got there I started to get more excited for my trip.  Running into a dear old friend now working for Westjet was also a nice surprise that increased the smile factor.  The plane ride was a typical plane ride…  I read the news paper for the first half of the flight and slept the second.  I awoke as the plane was landing in Regina, gathered my things (I assumed all of them) and waited to get off the plane and on the road.

It was just one of those days when life throws challenges.  I am aware of these days more than ever and try to see them as character builders or the flipside to the balance of the universe rather than anything negative. Don’t get me wrong, I can’t say I didn’t get a bit rattled as the bricks persisted throughout the trip.  To avoid losing my sh*t a few times I reminded myself that though certain aspects of the day were frustrating as can be, at least the sun was still shining outside – In fact, I had many things to smile about -  more than I did to frown about.   

My next reminder that life has as wicked of a sense of humour was when I approached the car rental companies in the airport.  Of the six or more companies there, only one had a line up.  And it was a huge line up.  And of course it was the company I was dealing with.  Enterprise was busy on this sunny prairie Sunday.  Still line up or not, Enterprise was still better than AVIS.   HELL, a stick in the eye is better than AVIS.  I won’t even get into the rant that explains my disliking for AVIS.  Let’s just say after trying to find competence within this company for years by being a loyal customer I was repeatedly let down.  GFY(AVI)S!!!  I was happy to use a new company and offer my loyalty upon some decent customer service.

I am going to call it right now…  This is going to be another long one I think!  Readers beware.  This could cut into your work time, your homework time, your sleep time, your Jersey Shore time or you Christmas shopping…  Nah, I’ll try not to make it that long!

So, I finally got the keys to my car and was stoked to get on the road.  My bags were at the Westjet counter, as a nice attendant had collected them and was holding them at a desk for me.  As I approached the desk I realized I did not have my I-Pod.  I had left it on the plane.  INSTA-PANIC!!!  CRAP!!!  Yeah I wrote CRAP haha… maybe not so much what I was saying to myself in the Regina airport, but for the sake of PG factor I said crap upon the realization that I was suddenly i-Podless.  Honestly it wasn’t even an “I have to buy a new one thing.”  I was mostly upset because 1) I have 17000 songs on my I-Pod, and this library has been a long time in the making.  2) And even more disturbing, I was on the road with no music.  Now some people might think listen to the radio, but not for me.  I can’t stand the radio! I do not enjoy hearing the new Nickelback once every hour –m once in my lifetime is too much Nickleback.  Ever since I found punk rock, the radio has been dead to me.   The only exception being maybe talk radio or Jason Ellis on Faction… Besides these options, I would rather listen to nothing.  And seeing I had no X-FM and wasn’t really feeling AM radio for hours of driving I would be doing all week I was apparently in a real jam – with no jam.

Hoping to intercept my I-Pod before it left the airport aboard the plane I forgot it on; I rolled my ass as fast as I could for the Westjet counter, but no such luck.  I was bummed to say the least.  I wouldn’t accept it was gone though and kept telling myself to keep positive.  I could get it back.  The nice guy from Westjet who helped me with my bags explained that they would contact the plane when it landed in Vancouver and ask about my I-Pod.  I was not satisfied with this and demanded that they contact the flight crew while they were still in the air and ASAP because the longer my I-Pod was in the seat pocket (where I now remembered leaving it) the lesser my chance of getting it back were.  I guess persistence pays off, because about half way through the 2+ hour drive from Regina to Saskatoon, my speaker phone rang and a nice employee from Westjet explained that my I-Pod had been found and would be on the next flight to Saskatoon for me to pick up.  STOKED!  This trip had turned around 180 with a phone call.  Positive thinking goes a long way in life, and so does compromise…

Once I had got into my rental car, a sweet little ride by the way, I remembered I had a couple of hundred songs on my Blackberry that would suffice in the meantime: Manowar, Against Me!, Turbonegro, The Flatliners.  I was in good shape.  And as an added bonus I quite liked my rental car, and had no trouble getting my wheelchair in and out of it.  Focus on the positives right!?

The drive to Saskatoon is a little over a couple of hours when driving the speed limit.  So I arrived around dinner time.  My room at the Sandman in Saskatoon was decent.  I was happy mostly with the location.  There is a Shark’s Club attached with good food and plenty of friendly and attractive servers.  Even better, for me anyways, was the hotels proximity to a Full Serve gas station!  Yes, right across the street baby!   Full Serve gas stations are to people in wheelchairs like jock-straps are to football players…  they might sometimes smell a little funny but they are your best friend when you need them.  Most random analogy ever? 

I went grocery shopping at Superstore in Saskatoon and picked up the usual staples for a road trip: apples, granola bars, water and dried fruit snacks.  I try to eat as healthy as I can avoiding fast food and junk food.  I got a good sleep the first night and was out the door and headed for Warman, Saskatchewan around 8:30am, Monday.  The sun was shining and the fall colours were brilliantly presenting themselves in every which direction I looked.  My Blackberry pumped out a best of sort of playlist of tunes, so my face was wearing a smile.  The tour was starting off great!

I arrived in Warman quite early.  The community was a bit bigger than I had imagined, and the school was very new and nice.  The principal greeted me as I entered the door.  Mr Stanvilov was a very friendly man, who I could tell was grateful to have me at the school.  He thanked me for coming to Warman then explained there had been a fatality over the weekend involving a car crash and the mother of some students at the school.  This was sad to hear, and a reminder that as much as I enjoy speaking to young people it really is serious business…  life and death.  Since the crash had just occurred, the students’ who lost their mom were not going to be in attendance, but that wasn’t to say that it wouldn’t be emotional for those who knew and cared for this family.  My heart goes out to everyone impacted by this tragedy.

I had a good crew of teachers and students helping me set up the AV.  All appeared to be running smoothly, until my computer started to give me grief.  See I was still using my back-up laptop that I have been using since that unfortunate incident last March when a bonehead cab driver ran over my good laptop, and then refused to pay for it.  Lawsuit still pending on that one.   As sketchy as my back-up laptop could be, it still had worked in all previous attempts enough to project my videos and play with sound.  But on this day it was not to be.  Just as the 500+ students started to enter the gymnasium (a time when I would normally start my skate video / tone setter / intro) my computer froze, then it crashed!  I never got it up and running in time, and continued to watch the laptop reboot, crash, reboot, crash and so forth throughout the duration of the presentation.  It was frustrating, but I didn’t let it affect my talk.  If anything, I spoke with increased conviction and passion in order to fill the gap of not having videos.

Still, without videos I could tell that the students and staff at Warman were moved by my presentation.  I was approached by a number of students, and some teachers.  Mr. Stanvilov told me that the presentation was a success.  Quote en Quote “The grade 12s never sit that quietly through presentations.”  I was stoked leaving Warman.   After all, this was my first presentation of the year.  I had overcome some adversity and still delivered to a room full of teenagers.  Sure, I wished I could have at least shown my skate video (there were a ton of skaters at the school), but overall I was happy.  There were a lot of cool people in Warman.  I am glad I go to visit, and hope to be back again one day.  Thanks for the shirt…  watch here to see the videos you missed.

And one more thing about Melfort…  Sonia is awesome! and so is Carlyne!!

My next stop on Monday was Aberdeen.  To keep up with my AV catastrophes (no exaggeration or anything!!) my GPS (voice of Cartman from South Park) led me the long way to my next destination.  I should have experienced my first prairie ferry, but instead was rerouted back through Saskatoon adding an additional and unnecessary 50minutes to my trip.  I realize how stupid the routes my GPS gives me are at home where I know where I am going.  I prefer not to even imagine what ridiculous routes Cartman curses me along when I am out of town.  Yep, on the road I just listen to Cartman swear his face off at me and take the directions as potty mouthed gospel.  I figure ignorance is bliss.

I was happy to see some familiar faces in Aberdeen, which is always nice.  I felt so very welcomed there.  Everyone was super friendly and excited; despite I’m sure sensing how flustered I was.  I clearly recall huffing and puffing (but not blowing anyone’s school down) as I tried to get my laptop working.  But it was not to be.  Fortunately a SADD student ran home to grab her laptop, while another cool SADD student ran to my car to grab my wheelchair handles to pull me onstage.  I was in good hands in Aberdeen.  Mrs. Lalonde leads a great team of students.  Team work is great and “I love it when a plan comes through… right BA??”  A-Team reference for anyone wondering.

We got the AV going after a few speed bumps, and I was able to show both my opening and closing videos in Aberdeen, much to my delight.  The presentation went quite well, as far as I could tell.  I felt that the standing ovation at the end was a good way of judging my effectiveness.  I really enjoyed my visit on and off the stage in Aberdeen.  The SADD group there are a great group of students and teachers who made me feel so welcomed and so appreciated.  They even made a sweet welcome poster for me.  Thank you all!

I left Aberdeen for Saskatoon on a mission to buy a new laptop.  Thankfully, a new Best Buy had just opened in Saskatoon. I remembered passing it on my way into town the day before and figured I could find it by memory.  Unfortunately I was looking right instead of left and drove right by.  When I reached the familiar Sandman Hotel where I was staying, I knew I had gone too far.  I pulled over the car and searched Google on my Blackberry for Best Buy.  I was pretty happy when an address showed up on first search.  Maybe my luck was turning around.  I punched the address for Best Buy into my GPS and followed Cartman’s cursing. 

I have been to Saskatoon only a few times, but I do feel that I kind of know it.  The city is surrounded in a huge circular road way that is called Circle Drive.  It really is quite ingenious, because you can get literally anywhere within the city limits by just continuing to follow the circle.  So graced with this knowledge, I was a bit sceptical of the directions Cartman was cursing me in. As I drove down countless residential streets lined with tall trees of gold, crimson and brilliant orange I thought maybe this could be a shortcut.  And what a scenic one shortcut at that!

All was good until I reached what looked to be a rougher part of town with no Best Buy in sight.  The location my GPS led me to certainly was not Best Buy ELECTRONICS.  In fact, I saw no large retail outlets anywhere in sight.  Annoyed now, I pulled over and checked my Blackberry to compare addresses.  Maybe I had typed it out wrong I thought.  NOPE!  WT…!?  I was about to call Best Buy to explain how AWESOME it was that they had the wrong address posted online, wondering if it would take a Geek Squad to decipher the sarcasm in my voice.  Then upon closer inspection I saw that I was in fact at the Best Buy I had looked up…  only I had ironically looked up Best Buy ESTHETICS, not Best Buy ELECTRONICS.  Best Buy Aesthetics could not help me out, since it was my computer that was dishevelled and infected and not me (thankfully of course)… though at this point a temple massage would have felt great.  I reminded myself to remain calm, even as my blood started to boil.  I looked up the correct address and looked ahead at my route.  It looked more like a parking lot than a roadway.  Anyone wondering if there is rush hour in Saskatoon… Yes, yes there is.

Furthermore, anyone wondering if the big cities in Saskatchewan also use prairie directions…  Yes, yes they do.  Ok, it wasn’t quite turn at left at the grain elevator, follow the grade until you reach Owen’s place then turn right, but the address to Saskatoon’s new Best Buy was merely a crossroad that further complicated things for KB.

I went a bit nuts in Best Buy.  After venting to the poor unsuspecting Geek Squad manager Garret, I ended up not only buying a new laptop, but also leaving my old POS laptop to be devirused, debugged and deloused.  I figured this was a lot more practical than the other option I had considered.  You know…  Hurling the old laptop into the Saskatchewan River.   After all the pain it had caused me the thought of having it DESTROYED gave me a twisted smile.  But what good would it do me?  I’d be better off with two than one - one for business and one to download tunes with.  I left Best Buy feeling grateful to have reliable equipment for the remainder of the tour…  Sure I was $800 poorer than when I had rolled in, but can you really put a price on piece of mind?  Best Buy can and did.

I had some chores ahead of me Monday night, when really all I wanted to do was chill… maybe write a blog, but that was not possible.  I am not sure if any of you have ever set up a new computer, but it is quite the process.  I got the basics installed…  my video, my wireless mouse and that is about it.  My new laptop would not allow me to access the internet, and as far as I could tell I had no word program to write on, but oh well…  I guess I could just go to bed and get a good sleep instead of writing a blog…  I could stay up late and write a blog and miss out on sleep another night…  Maybe Wednesday night!

Tuesday morning I spoke in Colonsay.  Colonsay is a quaint, clean little town about 40 minutes south east of Saskatoon.  I had been there before a couple years before, and I had great memories from my last visit.  As I pulled up to the school, I felt great vibes.  This was going to be a good day.  And the sun was still shining too!  I was met in the parking lot by the principal, and reunited inside with familiar faces from Colonsay’s SADD team.  The talk went great.  The new AV equipment worked perfectly.  The students, staff and parents in the audience were wonderful.  I had an awesome experience in Colonsay, and was bummed I couldn’t stay longer…  I’m pretty sure the students wouldn’t have minded either.  Thanks to everyone from Colonsay!  Keep up the awesome work SADD team!!  Thanks for the shirt too!

My next destination was Humboldt, Saskatchewan.  I had first heard of Humboldt when the city was up to Terrace in CBC’s Hockeyville contest.  I can still remember parts of the catchy “Humboldt is Hockey Town” jingle that I fondly recall hearing between intermissions during NHL games in the 2008 / 2009 season.  It was a beautiful drive from Colonsay to Humboldt.  Contrary to what some people might have heard, driving in the prairies is quite an enjoyable experience.   For starters, there is next to no traffic.  The roads are straight and the rolling hills, countless lakes, and endless stretches of meticulously tended farmland really compliment the blue skies (blue skies that I always seem to travel under when I visit this great province.)

Humboldt is one of the bigger little communities have visited in all of my travels around Saskatchewan.  According to the locals the combination of a MacDonald’s, a Dairy Queen, A&W and 7-11 make Humboldt a city, not just a small town – I agree.  I pulled up to the school, windows down and Iron Maiden blaring from my rental car.  Students enjoying a peaceful lunch break in the sunshine did not seem startled by this metal intrusion.  Actually they seemed stoked.  I watched happily as metal horns were flashed my way and a mini-circle pit even started among a few die hard metal dudes.  I had a good feeling about this place!  There were more familiar faces inside the school, among them Cst. Trevor Scott, Mrs Marshall as well as current and alumni SADD students.  I was quite pleased to learn that I would be speaking in an auditorium and even more pleased when I was led into the venue.  I had great sight and sound to work with, and the seats looked really comfy, just like mine YAY!!!  I have to say, as of today (and not to take anything away from the other presentations I have done on this tour) Humboldt has been the best talk of the tour.  It was perfect.  The audience, the venue… and I was pretty on my game too.  It just jived! 

After my presentation in Humbolt someone asked me my favourite Maiden song…  This is it right here.

I left Humboldt stoked and headed for my next destination and home base for the next two nights, Melfort, Saskatchewan.  I had never been to Melfort and was happy to arrive at the Travelodge where I would be staying.  The amazing sunset that the Land of Living Skies delivered upon my arrival was a nice compliment no doubt.  I got a good sleep and was up around 6:30am Wednesday, and feeling on top of my game – four presentations down and seven to go.  The summer rust was gone, and I was stoked on the tour!

My first presentation Wednesday was in Tisdale, Saskatchewan, about 30 minutes east of Melfort.  I had first discovered Tisdale while driving from Hudson Bay to Saskatoon years ago during a previous Saskatchewan tour. When I first passed the sign Welcome to Tisdale: Land of Rape and Honey, I thought I had misread.  I actually pulled over, turned around and drove back to see if my eyes had just played a trick on me, but they hadn’t.  I assumed it didn’t mean what it appeared to mean, but I had no idea what else it could mean.  More than anything, I thought it was pretty funny, so I took pictures and posted them on Facebook.  I have since learned that Rape and Honey has to do with grape seed and canola.  This shows the purity of the prairies…  If somewhere like Surrey, BC had such a name…  WOW!  

At the CYAID in Regina this past May, I met a ton of people as usual.  One of these people was Cahli.  She told me that she was from Tisdale.  I said “ahhh, the Land of Rape and Honey!”  It was agreed that I should speak there this year.  I also asked that a Tisdale shirt be a part of the deal, and did Cahli ever come through on that one.  Check out my rad shirt.   My presentation in Tisdale was also pretty rad.  It was a large audience, and they were all into hearing my story; as far as I could tell from the stage they were anyways.  Thanks to Cahli and everyone in Tisdale who made my visit, my shirt and my presentation possible.  The standing ovation was pretty sweet too!! I had a great time in your awesome town, and hope to be back again.

From Tisdale, I headed back to Melfort.  I had a presentation at Mefort and Unit Comprehensive High School l there.  Apparently the SADD group in Melfort had heard about me through the grapevine, so there were no familiar faces when I arrived at the school.  But that didn’t matter because they students there, especially the SADD students were so welcoming and awesome.  Thanks for the card by the way!!  I made friends with everyone pretty fast, and enjoyed the spirit and senses of humour that I encountered there.  These were like minded people, that I really enjoyed being around.  The presentation was rad!  I hung out for hours afterwards signing postcards and hanging with students from the school.  From the gymnasium I headed outside with a small entourage.  We continued to hang out and chat in the parking lot for more hours…  Danielle, Destiny, Michelle and Almost Bieber.  Part way through our hang out session I was approached by a mom and daughter.

STORY:  I believe in energy big time.  The entire universe has energy, and we as people are no exclusion to the rule.  I also believe that like minded energies attract each other: negative – negative / positive – positive and so on…  I seem to attract a lot of people who have been through difficult times in their lives.  I think that people relate to me because I so openly share my most difficult challenges in life.  The mom and daughter who approached me in Melfort were another example of energies attracting.  They had lost their son / brother in a car crash about a year ago.  The pain was still fresh.  The daughter had found out about me through mutual friends on Facebook and had been following my blogs and story online.   They just so happened to recognize me as they drove past a parking lot in Melfort, Saskatchewan…  a guy from BC (a long way from home) with a similar story to theirs just sitting in their small rural hometown on a sunny Wednesday afternoon.  What are the odds?  We met and spoke and exchanged stories.  There was a bond that couldn’t be denied.  Believe it or not, I encounter stories like these a lot.

After the mom and daughter left the parking lot, I continued to chat for a bit with the posse of students.  It was getting cold though, so we decided to part ways.  The students told me they would come visit me later, and we could hang out in the arcade located in the lobby at the Travelodge where I was staying.  Now, I don’t normally hang with students, but being on the road and having the ok by one of the students parents made it cool as far as I was concerned.  We met later on that night and it was super fun.  No video games were played, since the two games looked like they were circa ’79…  They had pong!  Serious Pong!  and some other game that looked similarly lame.  So we had coffee, water and hot chocolate and hung out instead.  It was cool to have some company.

I started writing this blog that Wednesday night.  I was up until around 1am before I decided to call it a night.  I didn’t have the password for my website handy anyways, so postponing the blog wasn’t the end of the world.  I might have got 4 ½ hours of sleep Wednesday night.  Needless to say I was feeling pretty tired on Thursday.  I packed my bags to the car and left for the hour plus drive northeast to Nipawin, Saskatchewan.  My GPS gave me a few worries on the way, missing roads and then only being able to get me to Nipawin, but not specifically the school.  So I relied on my own brain, a brain that feels atrophied from lying dormant since I first purchased a GPS and stopped using my instincts to navigate.  I was losing it a bit as it seemed that Nipawin had at least a dozen 1st avenues…  which was the one I was looking for?  I would find my way eventually.

They were really prepared for me in Nipawin, which I was grateful for because I showed up a bit later than I wanted to.   The principal made sure that everything was set up and was super accommodating.  The SADD students were all awesome and helpful too.  When I started speaking it seemed like the audience was unsure of whether they could laugh at my jokes.  I understand when audiences have apprehension because the nature of my topic is very serious.  However, I do somehow manage to have some fun with it.  I had my first pass out / seizure of the year in Nipawin, and during the time that the student was lifted from the floor and led from the room I felt that the audience and I really bonded.  It’s interesting how incidences like a fellow student having a seizure can bring people together.  It kind of broke the ice.  I can’t explain it really…  maybe it’s just like how any time of adversity can bring people together.  From here on out the presentation really seemed to click with everyone.  I could feel the energy in the room change, and the change was for the better.  I had minimal time after finishing my presentation until I had to leave for Hudson Bay.  Before I left, I chatted with a few students and did an interview with a local newspaper reporter.

The sun was shining for the entire2hr drive southeast from Nipawin to Hudson Bay.  The scenery changes in the approach to Hudson Bay.  Suddenly forests of pine and spruce rise from the farmland.  The change is impossible not to notice.  To me it almost seems like a new province, but unknown to me (until I just wiki’d Saskatchewan Forests) and I am sure many others, Saskatchewan is half covered in forests.  I rolled into Hudson Bay and was met by a teacher and students at the door and led inside.  I had been looking forward to my talk at HBCHS, as I had been a great experience visiting three years prior.  My last visit was really hyped, and I signed a ton of autographs on some of the most random things I had ever signed.  Knee pads topping this list.  Well hype was in the air again on this visit.  The staff, the SADD students, the rest of the school and the local credit union loaded into the gymnasium.  I had an awesome audience.  When I was done speaking, in typical Hudson Bay fashion I signed autographs and random things…  most notable a retainer case and a roll of duct tape for the credit union.  Thanks to everyone from HB!  I love coming to your city.  Thanks especially to the SADD group and the credit union for your support, hard work and sponsorship.

It was a long haul from Hudson Bay to Saskatoon – a 3+ hour drive northwest.  When I arrived in Saskatoon, I went straight for Best Buy (not Best Buy Aesthetics!) and picked up my debugged, deloused and devirussed old laptop.  I got back to the Sandman for the second leg of my stay there just after dark.  I was happy to be back in Saskatoon for a few reasons.  My friend Sydney lives here now agfter moving from Nanaimo on Vancouver Island, and I was happy to be visiting with her that night; I also had met a sweet girl at the Shark Club named Leanne and was looking forward to seeing her again; lastly, I was reunited with my hoodies and flannels I had forgotten at the hotel when I checked out on Tuesday.  My brain has been pretty forgetful on this trip.  But fortunately luck has been on my side.  I had good visits and good times Thursday night and wore my Rancid hoody that I had feared I may have lost just days before.  It was a great night. 

Friday morning was another challenging one.  The entire time I have been in Saskatchewan my GPS has overestimated my arrival times.  So I have gotten into the habit of giving myself less than the suggested time to get to wherever I am going.  Well, the estimated time given to me to get to Maidstone was pretty bang on, so I found out once I started driving north from Saskatoon on Friday morning. To add to the problem, I left my room a bit later than I had hoped after yet another battle with technology.  This time around I was trying to download the new Bad Religion album that I had ordered and have been dying to listen to since it came out Tuesday.  Unfortunately, it was not be Friday morning.  Frustrated and late, I eventually gave up. 

I knew pretty early into my trip that I was going to be tight on time in getting to Maidstone.  The minutes on my GPS were not rapidly decreasing as I drove toward my destination.  But even more disturbing was the rapid draining of my rental car’s fuel supply.  I drove on hoping to see a gas station, and a full service one at that, yet the road ahead did not offer any fuel options.  Finally, I saw a gas station, but it wasn’t full service.  I was too tight for time to get out and pump my own gas, so I pushed on hoping that the next town (12kms away) would have a gas station.  It did.  Unfortunately, grass and weeds had grown over the pumps.  It had obviously been closed for a while…  The sign on the highway claimed that the next town / city were the Battlefords.  Only they were 47kms away.  I had already been driving about 30kms with my gaslight on.  I didn’t have time to backtrack.  What do I do?  STRESSED to the MAX I cross my fingers and hope that I will make it to the Battlefords before I run out of gas.  I talked to the car most of the way…  One more kilometre, one more kilometre, come on car you can do it.  I willed the rental all the way to North Battleford and finally putted into a Fas Gas Full Service station on fumes.

I was stoked to have gas!!!!!!!!!  Onward I drove to Maidstone.  I arrived about 8minutes late feeling like an ass for being tardy.  Tardy ‘tard indeed.  Thankfully nobody seemed to be bothered at the school.  The massive SADD team of students and advisors, the principal and everyone else I met were so kind.  Maidstone is a great town full of great people.  I spoke, they were a great audience, and then my closing video started up.  We were about ¾ of the way through when the power went out.  Yet another speed bump for the tour, but onward I went.  I wrapped up the talk and afterwards took pictures outside with the SADD group (like half of the school!) and I signed a few pictures too.  The great people in Maidstone sent me on my way with sandwiches, veggies and a bag of nuts (sounds bad – not like that) and a book on everything about Saskatchewan.  What could’ve been a disastrous day had turned into one of, if not the best of the tour.  I left Maidstone smiling!

My next stop was another familiar town called Lashburn about 30minutes northwest.  I had spoken at Lashburn years ago, and was also happy to be back here.  My last talk in Lashburn was pretty sweet, but yesterday was AWESOME!  Friends from a neighbouring community called Hillmond also joined the assembly.  I had also spoken there before too, and I learned upon speaking to a beautiful advisor from Hillmond that the students were stoked to see me!  I was stoked to see all of them.  I could not have asked for a better presentation to close out the week of touring in Saskatchewan.  Talk number ten in five days was incredible.  I could feel everyone in that room feeling my story.  I gave them everything I had and then some, ad-libbing and even doing a little stand-up butt break / stretch / intermission thing.  This was a very unique presentation for me.  It stands out among the so many that I do, and I know that I will not soon forget it.  I want to thank Jennifer, the SADD students and schools for making yesterday possible.  I left Lashburn with a smile that stretched from ear to ear.  What a day, what a week, what a tour!!!!

I got back to Saskatoon around dinner time last night feeling very proud and happy with the way the tour had gone.  I love Saskatchewan, and this week and these words you just read (all nearly 6000 of them) explain why!

I want to thank absolutely everyone who made this week such a success: teachers, principals, sponsors, SADD groups, students and great people I have met along the way…  THANKS!  I spent a probably combined 8 hours writing this blog.  This one is for all of you.  If this week is any sign of the upcoming school year to come, I can’t wait to see where it all goes from here.  I definitely kicked 2010 / 2011 with a bang!  Thanks Saskatchewan!!!

-: )

Kevin

PS.  I talk about finding a way…  I always find a way.  Well I am pretty stoked for all of the sponsors I have now who are helping me help you find a way.  Have a look at my home page and all of the schools who support my cause.  Maybe through a program at one of these schools you can find your way to happiness, success and a great, rewarding life!! 

PPS:  I hope you feel better soon CFMT! Love ya!!  Hoping this will make you smile

 

 

Singing Bro Hymm on stage with Pennywise September 17,2010

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Me singing Bro Hymm on stage with Pennywise….  This was such a SICK night!!!

I even got Fletcher (Pennywise’s guitarists) contact and they are going to support me and my talks…  I might even replace Nothing Else Matters with this song and another since I have permission from Pennywise and I don’t from Metallica…

Another angle of BRO HYMM!

KB